Farscape

I know that there are times when loving someone becomes difficult and
that we are bound to get hurt from time to time. Then you realize that after a while you learn..that life does go on...

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand
and chaining a soul and you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and
company doesn't always mean security.

And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents
aren't promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up
and your eyes ahead...with the grace of woman, not the grief of a
child

And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's
ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling
down in mid-flight.

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much
so you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of
waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure you really are strong you
really do have worth and you learn and you learn with every goodbye,
you learn...

Then After "after a while" you change and build your hopes again. And
pray that maybe this time it will be different. And you hold on to
that hope because in the end that's all you really have..

After "AFTER A WHILE"

After 'after a while'.... You want to hold a hand not to chain a soul
but to enjoy its company, and you want someone's lips to kiss, not
because you are lonely but because you are happy, and you want to give
presents and you want to make promises.

After 'after a while'...You begin to accept your defeats like an
adult, but like a child, will want someone to listen and care, and you
want someone who will build roads with
you today so maybe you can pave the way for your future together.

After 'after a while'...You want someone's sunshine and warmth, but
also accept the rain and the cold, and you want to give flowers picked
from your own garden.

And when your garden is picture perfect, you want it to be more than a
picture even if it means having to be imperfect because you want
someone in it to stay and to live.

Then you'll see that there is such a thing as love... and that you
were made to live in someone else's garden...and you'll know that
there is more to life than yourself.

AND NOW...
You realize that no matter how tightly you hold, if you're meant to
let go, you can And then you will understand that love gives you
reasons to understand even the most complicated situations... And you
will grow older believing that just because you have convictions
doesn't mean you're always right

You will remember lips because of the smiles that made your day, the
words that touched your soul, not only because of the sweet kisses

And as you graciously accept defeat and absorb the meaning of lessons
learned, You feel that you are finally being the person you never
thought you'd be

So, armed with courage, strength and confidence, you will face the
world....head on... With or without an army behind you... Because you
know your worth and that alone is an armour

With more heartbreaks you will cry.... But after every heartache, you
will rise!!

Life is a garden ... it takes long to make it beautiful. But it's
always worth the wait.. *wink*